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I am too scared to write what I want!

26/4/2019

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Ok here goes...... 
I have known for ages that I get this shaky feeling inside me the minute I think about  putting  my true thoughts and feelings into writing.
Maybe you also know this feeling.

Why?

Because it is easier to stay small.
I am scared of hurting others by my words
I really don't want to deal with conflict.
I might have it all wrong.
No one else might think the same way as me.
I might be ostracized.
Others might talk about me.
What I write may not make sense to anyone else.

Wow really!!!
Yes this feels really true for me and  it may for you too.

Is this the truth?
No and I know that but at some level in my subconscious mind I have a memory or feeling that tells me it is unsafe for me to write my thoughts for others to read.
I don't know what this memory is but what I do know is how I feel when I go to write. 
This feeling has been with me for a while.  It has been a gift by helping me to stay safe and protected but it is no longer helping me, if anything it is holding me stuck in fear and doubt.

So as I will look at what beliefs I can balance to make this an easier journey, allowing "that feeling" to sit back and relax when I wish to write.

Heres some beliefs that I would like to have to support me on my journey.
  • It is safe to allow myself to be visible as I grow and flourish.
  • It is safe to be rejected.
  • I am a confident and engaging writer.
  • I stand authentically in my power.
  • I easily speak and write my personal truth with clarity and confidence.
  • People like and respect my work.
  • I am surrounded by people who enjoy and benefit from my knowledge and wisdom.

Maybe make some of your own enhancing beliefs to live by. 
If you need help, let me know.

We often make a story up about ourselves that at some stage kept us safe and protected but as we grow older, these stories no longer help or support us.  Yes we can push through but by changing the limiting belief into supportive ones it allows our journey forward to be easier, smoother and faster.

I encourage you to choose a fear or doubt that you may feel and come up with some powerful, juicy and supportive beliefs to help you take that next step.

cheers
Jackyx
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11/6/2019 12:48:28 pm

There are times I am too afraid to just write what I want. None of the closest people in my life will ever bother to read what I have to say anyway. I guess this is the same problem we share with fellow writers. Nobody among our closest relatives are interested in our work but when word is out that we could be talking about them, they are too quick to find out for themselves and relate themselves to it even if we totally do not have them or our situation with them in mind when we wrote such things.

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19/6/2022 09:55:31 pm

Greatt reading your blog post

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